Men are just like mules. Not just like babies... Sometimes, the hard-working mule suddenly cracks up, he does something unexpected from others. If you kick his ass for that, the mule will get worse and worse. Why don't you give him something like a carrot? Then, it seems like the mule snap out of the insanity, and you can save your kicking. If that doesn't work, hmm..let me see...ok...whip him..haha