"what you can not get ,what is best",I do not remember who said this,but I think it is truth.Something that is not really prettier as you would think it,but it maybe only when you think it like pretty. So what I want to tell you is that "is he really the only best one?". If not,forget him.And also forgive "HER",because you and "HER" have equal rights and it is a competitive world. The world is so big,you can find excellent people anywhere.