I might be the one you are looking for(the one who lives in L.A. not the wife you are looking for). Well, I attend Occidental College(oxy for short) in Pasadena and I am as desperate as you are. (there is a famous saying in our school that goes "nine out of ten girls in California are foxy and one go to oxy"). Anyways if you need any help, I will help you out in any way possible. gotta go.