Re: To brush off someone... It means "to ignore", "to dismiss", "to disrespect" (moo-si) someone. Re: Loneliness... It's a feeling that you get when you have nothing to occupy your mind and realized that there is no one, physically or emotionally, next to you to share the moment with. So, there are several ways to resolve this. I don't think any one would be enough or complete. One is to occupy oneself, which definitely works and a lot of comtemporaries seem to follow it (I think Internet contributed significantly to this), but one has to rest eventually. Another is to have a support group of friends and families. This also works, and most people would see it as the best and "right" way. However, they may not be there all the time, physically and emotionally. This brings to another (but always in an assisting role) way... One can also learn to have confidence in and be content with oneself. I don't think this will never work by itself, but I think this is generally a good idea as an individual and will help with relationships with others. Hong. -- 2002-05-14 ------------------------- http://www.sori.org/hongcho/ -- Don't put off for tomorrow what you can do today, because if you enjoy it today you can do it again tomorrow. -------------------------------------- http://www.pbase.com/hongcho/ --