An afterthought: in addition to a clever answer, a man must say it fast. After such a question, most women offer a time window so narrow few men are capable of find (or choose) such an answer AND say it through the window before it shuts down. That short-living openness is a portal through which men can reach out straight to her heart with his. A rare chance. Therefore, almost by definition the portal needs to be open only for a brief moment... for an answer from the heart should not need much time. Any answer that 'follows' the moment's end is a brain's answer, perhaps able to touch her brain, but sadly for men, not her heart. Ah, the art of love... 저 언덕을 넘어 푸른 강가엔 젊은 나무 한 그루 있어 메마른 날이 오래여도 - 푸르니 뿌리가 깊어 아무런 걱정없는 나무