ESP.
I think freinds break off for two reasons: either their nature do not match at
all, or they fail to solve the problems bettwen them. It is my subjective
observation that only similar-natured people stay as frineds long. If their
nature is different, they break off eventually. I think that's better for
those people aftre all.
But similar-natured people also break off. In this case, they could not solve
the problem between them. There are many possible causes of conflict between
people. Miscommunication, difference of background, a long lapse of time
without contact,etc, etc. But again, according to my very subjective
observation, if the friends have the attitude to try to understand and forgive
each other in times of conflict, they still could keep the frindship and even
develop it to a higher level. Friendship, I think, means the attitude to try
to underrstand one's friend. So why not forgive and tolerate each other?
Friendship is, I think, too important to be ditiched by some mistakes on
either side.
I am defending myself who always make mistakes to my friends, who but always
forgive my mistakes. Thanks to my friends.
By the way, if you need an always-problem-creating friend, call S.O.S.