I can understand your concern for your friend... I've seen that many times myself.... I guess all you can do is just wish her the best and hope that everything will work out for the best.. But don't let such situations make you shy away from your happiness.. your chance of getting to know and love another person.. I'm saying this without even knowing if you have a mate.. Or if you are even interested in having one.. I just felt much reggression from your post. Hey I hope that you will find some peace in your heart.. Once you get to know yourself, and what you want out of life and relationships.. I'm sure things will be more clearer to you.. Always keep your chin up, and necer stop smiling. Arizona