You said... She doesn't love him or anything. she just feel like... hmm.. after I read your writing, I wavered a little...whether I gave you another pain or not... I have 3 friends, they are my true friends. At least I think so... If one of them choose his spouse for not love but other purpose (for example, property or citizenship for U.S....), I will dissuade him from marrying. Because that kind of marriage life might probably make them miserable, unhappy. I think that "love is always to persevere, continuously to make effort to understnd each other". Therefore persons who want to marry will probably need a time. I can understand the concern of your friend. Before too late, Ask your friend or him whether he/she/they really love, want to marry, please. Especially your friend. I think that marriage can make a waman happy, but can make a waman's life afflicting, painful. Especially she might regret her erroneous choice (marrige) for all her life, if your concern is true. Please, before too late... I feel the Earth move.