hehe...thank u for ..ur reply again....:) I had a serious talk with her yesterday...... and I decided to wish her good luck...... I guess...we never know...what will happend..until it happens... she believed her feelings.....so..I decided to believe her too... There r so many choices in our lives...... it's very important to make a right choice each time..... but....human beings r not smart enough to foresee the future... so....we say..."Life is a beach!.."..hehehe... Am I too melancholy??...hehehe... I just wish her happiness....now....and pray..... that's all I can do.....thanks..for ur advice...:)